Advice For People Who Run Away

All kinds of people end up alone, or living alone far away...and maybe they don't know anyone.

It's hard to leave somewhere and move away and start a new life alone with no family or friends, on top of that then avoid similar situations in your new life that led to you running away from your old one.

Like don't run away and go to the streets, go to somewhere normal.

I just heard some similar stories to my life recently about people who had to run away, that's not always teenagers.

People run away as adults, I moved away alone at 32...I can't say that I specifically ran away as an adult, it's more that I was leaving a bad situation anyway and moved as an adult...for me it was the moving away part that led to the bad situation.

If I had been a teenager when that happened it would have been running away, it's hard to call something running away when you have a good University education and can start a new life anywhere....even if you end up being by yourself.

Today, for me the bigger issue is turning 45....I'm supposed to be alone now, at least I have something to look forward to, twenty years until I turn 65 and get extra money. Saving up for that is a good activity for someone living alone at my age.

Why would I live alone? Well, I'm too far into my life to be taking on a new marriage and tons of friends now...like I'm more interested in buying a house by myself...so I may be down at the metal concert but it's not a big crowd at my house now.

This is something that you have to understand when you run away, a lot of the time you have to. 

When you try an explain yourself about the situation you left to someone people don't know what you are talking about, I mean you are talking about an extraordinary situation that no one has ever heard of.

Like I say this all the time on here, don't take this page seriously but then I have to censor myself because the things I talk about are just regular issues...but the people that bother you hear these things and they have a bizzare and outrageous reaction, like coming to your house and assaulting you over a music blog...no, they are retarded.

If you're a runaway, you may not be able to tell the real story even when it is a simple everyday event because the people that hurt you may be stalking the page and assault you again over mentioning simple topics - that's the same reason you left in the first place...then you have to censor yourself because they are nuts and sometimes come back. 

It may take a long time to explain to people the circumstances that made you run away because they don't understand them.

Regular everyday people have never heard of what you are talking about, it took me YEARS to explain to people what happened in my situation because they didn't know what it was and couldn't understand it, then they can't even believe it.

Now I have more examples.

I didn't move away alone to go to bars and seedy hangouts, I moved away to start a better life...now when I'm doing that there's no people around, like there's not much of a social scene for computer scientists out there living alone in their forties, and no one like that would ever lower their standards.

You end up just knowing people from what you are doing, then there's not many people around all that.

Like this, if you're a teenager and trapped in a house you hate and you have no place to study for school and no food and a big mess everywhere, then you only have a few friends and study at the library...

At home, people who assault you in the house won't let you study then this makes you mad and you start arguing with them, then they punish you by grounding you from the library so you can't study and not letting you see your friends - trapping you in the house.

No that is not normal, that is assault.

Then is when you have to run away, they are doing that to you at home because they hate you.

They are holding you there and not letting you study because they hate you, that is brutal assault.

People outside have never heard of that, then when you try and tell them you have too many words to explain it to them which gets frustrating because they think you are just blabbering on.

In fact, they don't get what you mean - the long story you are trying to say people have never hear of that. They might not be able to pay attention that long or know what you mean.

When you say, I ran away because they wouldn't let me study, go to the library or have friends....they may not get the impact of that....no, you mean FOR REAL, FOREVER...they meant it to you for the rest of your life and assaulted to until they forced you to run away as a teenager.

To make it short, just say that you ran away because you were being abused and then they assaulted you.

For the other people, they are heading to prison for that.

Then slowly explain what happened, like on this page I tell a small story you can't believe that people did then they never stop coming...I still have to explain that to people over and over different ways when they ask why I don't live where I used to.

Like this, no one would ever do those things to people....they are going to prison, like they locked you in a cage in the basement for real because you were trying to get your grade 12.

Those are real situations, the people who did that are mentally retarded.

The short of it is that they are jealous of you for your life outside the house, never go back. 

Then they try and stop you from having a life by force, that is assault.

Then they make your home life a situation where you can't study to graduate and start yelling at you all the time to make you fail and hold you in the house, that is abuse and assault and sounds like they are getting life in prison for it.

They do that to you because they hate you for your life that you have and then they hold you there to hurt you, to me they are the equivalent of murderers.

This is what pisses me off the most about people like that, then they want to keep coming back to you and keep doing it or try to get you to come back so they can keep hurting you.

Then...and I am extremely serious about this, they are always looking for a fight with you so when you say something normal they come down and try to abuse you again, using ANYTHING you say as an excuse to keep assaulting you.

You have to run away and never comeback.

No, they are mentally retarded and assaulting you because they are jealous of you, irrationally violent and can't control their behavior.

With me, it happened once like above when I graduated University finished my certifications and was moving away, they assaulted me in a home invasion, ruined my house, stole my possession and tried to follow me around "holding" me in a life where I couldn't be a University Graduate, they tried to stop me from earning a living and flamed me for years over it later.

For stuff like taking the job from my degree, no - THEY ARE NUTS.

I more or less beat them up, took them to court and won. Then I banned them for life and they still flamed me, but never came back.

The point is no one understood what I mean..for a long time.

That's because no one would ever do that, but they did.

You are describing events that no one would ever do, yet someone or a group of people did it to you. 

No, they lost their minds and are heading to prison or something. 

How's this for a situation, you graduate from University with a high paying degree then the industry doesn't have the work...then when that happens you have to face the assault.

So you are out of work with a degree, and then get assaulted...that's what happened to me and apparently lots of other people.

It's like they assault you to keep you down because they are jealous when you can't get a job to to try and ruin your future. 

Like they like try to not let you recover.

Those people are the most nuts people that can ever live, right in public.

Then not only that when you are trying to explain yourself, they do the same thing lying trying to get out of it like they did in the assault.

Telling all these outrageous lies about you, it make take the court YEARS to figure out the true story.

That is court tampering.

So on top of the bizarre outrageous assault that makes you run away, things that no one would ever do but did, then they court tamper the same way lying to the judge and the court about you, flaming you in the public.

It's like the worst thing that could ever happen to deal with that, those people are totally nuts criminals assaulting you and lying to the courts, they are heading to prison.

It's just the way they do it in a group all assaulting you in a group and lying to cover for each other trying to "hold" you in the situation - which is voluntary by the way.  

Like they try and get you to "volunteer" to stay there to be assaulted because they are so mentally retarded and then you have to run away.

Teenagers or even adults who run away that face these situations may not know what to do...start by making a better life for yourself and not go to the streets or places like bars to start your new life, go somewhere normal even if you have to live alone to get away from those situations.

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