RELATIONSHIPS: Did You Marry A Dud Back In High School?

Is Forty The Right Age For Your Divorce?

Everyone has heard the story, you meet someone right after high school get married settle down in your 20's then buy a house and have kids.

However, by the time you get into your forties that person may not be the one you wanted.

After your youth wear's off by 45 the one you married in high school just sat at home with you and got lazy, fat and just sits around.

What happened?

When you are younger everyone is only in their 20's and full of youthfullness and they all look the same, young.

People often confuse young with attractive, meaning they marry someone young thinking that their look is attractive.

By forty when everyone grows your spouse is no longer young and lost their "youthfulness" which you mistook for attractiveness, when their youth wears off they become fat lazy and just sit around the house.

Then you are left there sitting in the kitchen staring out the window seeing everyone else in their forties out having fun, the ones that looked after themselves.

They know that being in shape and looking after themselves after forty will make them stand out to their peer group after 45 as the younger more attractive outgoing person for the bigger part of your life...after you get older.

After they lose their youth you no longer find them attractive, while other people your age have stayed in shape and remained outgoing and are the most attractive after forty, leaving you trapped in the house with that dud from high school. 

Wouldn't you rather be out having fun with people your age after 40 instead of being stuck in the house with that dud from your youth who didn't do anything? 

Maybe it's time for a divorce.

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