Update....I'm back up.
Wordpress updated their "widget menu" for the first time ever apparently and messed up my pages.
Now they have a whole brand new sidebar menu format.
The "add video" option is not working on the sidebar and menu's and offers no resize option.
That function is brand new and just started working.
That all works the same only they changed the widget side bar menu to the same format as auto html php post screen for the article pages.
To correct this issue once you learn the new menu, remove all "add video" auto plugins and switch back to "custom html" function and use manual share embed, like from youtube in html format and then manually resize boxes from standard to like 300 x 250 pixels for manually resize sidebar videos on the old "custom html function" which was replaced by auto add video which is now not working on all templates.
Custom html add video seems to work fine but I had to reset my video inlays because auto video add stopped working on the update, but you have to add manual and resize video boxes.
Instructions: Like on the wordpress main new post page.
Click on widget menu, select side bar or bottom menu.
Go to location on sidebar with new live preview....select new "block" on widget menu by pressing the "+" button....select "add custom html"...then share video with manual Youtube embed and resize the box to 300 x 250 pixels to manually resize video on the sidebar or bottom menu.
Yeah, this is way easier to operate wordpress on but I am getting server lock and cache overflow..and when you log out you can't log back in because of the cache overflow it thinks you're double logging in because the server cache didn't clear yet on the wordpress update
Then the front screen won't update until you add new post or log out and back in.
Then you get kicked off for like an hour because server lock from the cache overflow...the web server thinks you're still logged in and kicks you off.
That's what I see on my screen, maybe open a second web browser program to view your updates while logged out in a separate web browser than your work screen.
Nuisance, but it works better.
It will probably fix itself anyway later.
Yeah your bullshit wordpress updates are fucking up my pages, now my video boxes don't load right on my templates.
I mean people are selling them templates you know, you're fucking up their work...1/3 of the internet runs on wordpress...you're messing up the video inlays and resize boxes and you're causing cache overflow and server lock.
Now everything's all messed up and you're wasting developers times because you're ruining their templates by fucking up the video resize box on the sidebar menus.
Now all the template developers are going to have to update their templates to correct the video box sizes and logout issues with the cache causing ip lock issues on the server because of bad word press updates to their platform.
On new release day, god man...fired.